EFFECTS OF ADICTION OF PORNOGRAPHY ON MEN

Pornography means licentious paintings or writings .Many men all over world have become addicted to Pornography either under the influence of friends or due to loneliness or to satisfy their sexual desires or just for entertainment & last but not least , may be to know more about sexuality. Men spend several hours in week viewing lewd videos ,websites , movies etc. Viewing porn becomes part of their daily schedule.

It has been seen that men who are habitual to pornography gets irritated in the event of failure to view porn material . Also all over the world several people have made pornography as their business & they make young men addicted to it. Men start living
in fantasy when they spend lot of time in pornographic world as a result of which they find difficulties in concentrating on their studies or on career .They feel sleep in day & unable to sleep in night .These are some of the minor effects of addiction Pornography.

However the major effects are men who are unmarried refuse to get married because all their sexual urges get indirectly satisfied . In some cases men become very sexually active & make physical relations with many women without getting married . In case of married men the effects of addiction of pornography is very severe . Married men who are habitual to pornography lose interest in have sexual intercourse with their wives as a consequence of which their wives get irritated .There have been cases where in wives approached Doctors for their help regarding the above issue.

Recently one of my Doctor friend got a case of a newly wedded woman who was disappointed with her husband because her husband was lost in pornographic fantasy & was not willing to have relationship with her. When my friend counseled the husband of young lady he told that he no longer wishes to have physical relationship with his wife as he feels that addiction to porn is better & more satisfactory. Thus men's addiction of pornography is a serious social issue not only because it affects the married couple's relationship but also it does not allow young men to marry. Another thing pornography has become a big business & many innocent women get trapped & lose their virginity & self respect

MUNDAE MUNDAE MATIR BHINNA

Few days back I sketched Michael Jackson & uploaded the sketch in some websites. Many people visited my sketch & commented on it .However no two comments were same. All the viewers had different opinion about Michael Jackson’s sketch .One wrote that my sketch is very lively & beautiful. Another left a comment saying that my previous sketches were better. Somebody wrote that the sketch is not of Michael Jackson but of Hollywood celebrity Richard Marx .Another visitor asked me to sketch his avatar picture as he loves my style of sketching.
For a single sketch I received so many varied comments because of ‘ MUNDAE MUNDAE MATIR BHINNA ‘ .

Mundae Mundae Matir Bhinna is a Sanskrit proverb meaning as many brains as many opinions. In other words people vary in their intellectual & thinking abilities & therefore each individual views & thinks differently. Every one should understand the proverb ‘ MUNDAE MUNDAE MATIR BHINNA ‘ , since if we know that every individual thinks & views differently we will never become disappointed or develop negative approach when somebody passes an undesired comment for our work . Also we will not jump on our toes & develop superiority complex when somebody praises our work. Thus one should not form any conception about one’s own self or work on the basis of remarks made by people because every individual thinks differently. For one you work may be a master piece &for other it may not carry any value.

Either it is a negative or positive remark / view /opinion /rating /comment for our own self or for our work , we should always take it in positive direction .For instance , if a person comments poor on your work take the remark positively & try to improve . If somebody comments well try to be better next time. If somebody says better try to be best in future & if somebody says best than do not start pulling your collars upwards but instead try to maintain the quality of your work. We can survive only if we accept that every individual has unique views & thinking & we should always take remarks of people positively. If we do not accept this we develop negative attitude & because of this people go into depression as they think that the are good for nothing.

As we all know that one burning candle forms infinitive number of images when the candle is kept between two mirrors placed at equal heights facing each other . Similarly for same article or composition or any thing people have several different views & we should always consider the opinions of people positively.
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